I run marathons on Saturdays and triathlons on Sundays. DON' T WASTE MY TIME.""Here goes nothing: I'm a 29-year-old gal who just moved from Boston.

I have a job that sucks, but I won't bitch about it too much.

The alternatives— brutal honesty or the soft letdown—only sting more and waste your time.

Besides: Effortless rejection is one of online dating's great achievements.

You could cast a wide net and sign up for every single dating site.I move here four years ago and make many good friend but not find special lover. We asked Grant Langston, senior director at e Harmony, for a few guidelines to keep her from clicking delete. Blow through all your conversation topics beforehand with an hours-long emoticon-filled chat session.